A catcall is entirely about reminding you that you are not yours. The purity myth is entirely about reminding you that you are not yours. The fetishization of female purity in a world where catcalls are an acceptable form of communication telegraphs one thing very clearly:
“Women, stop sexualizing yourselves—that’s our job, and you’re taking all the fun out of it.”
The sexualization of women is only appealing if it’s nonconsensual. Otherwise it’s “sluttiness,” and sluttiness is agency and agency is threatening.
“Female ‘Purity’ is Bullshit”, by Lindy West
(Source: fictional-clue, via liamdryden)
I will not waste my time and happiness on a boy who does not love me and furthermore lives in Ohio. I will not waste my time and happiness on a boy who does not love me and furthermore lives in Ohio.I will not waste my time and happiness on a boy who does not love me an furthermore lives in Ohio.
The problem with spring break is that even though it’s nice to have time off from work, there’s nothing to drive the weekend monsters away if they want to settle in.
Yesterday I said to my roommate “I’m sorry you feel that way”, which I’m pretty sure is the first time I’ve ever unironically used that phrase and I today I still believe it was the right thing to say and adsf;kjlfahjl what have I become?
My roommate is smoking weed on the roof and I really want to join her but I’m not cause I have to be up for work in 6 hours but I feel really sad about it. Being a Real Adult sucks
my shingles are back. It’s like every time I try something new my body is like “fine, live your life, have adventures, but you can’t make me like it.” at least this time I have vicodin, health insurance, and access to doctors in a language I speak.